Kristen Neff on Fierce Self-Compassion

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Exploring the Yin and Yang of Self-Compassion

If you have trouble speaking up for yourself, do yourself a favor and listen to this episode of Woman Worriers. Host Elizabeth Cush welcomes Kristin Neff, a pioneer in the field of self-compassion research and author of the new book Fierce Self-Compassion: How Women Can Harness Kindness to Speak Up, Claim Their Power and Thrive.

Women who can be firm and express themselves authentically are happier and more satisfied.
— Kristin Neff

Show Notes:

Too many women treat others with much more kindness and compassion than they’re willing to give themselves. As a result, they often feel drained, depleted, unseen and unheard. Yet they hesitate to speak up for themselves, so the cycle continues. The solution lies in practicing self-compassion. In this episode of the Woman Worriers podcast host Elizabeth Cush, LCPC, a licensed professional therapist, founder of Progression Counseling in Annapolis, Md., and a mid-life women’s life coach, welcomes Kristin Neff, PhD, who has researched self-compassion for decades and written numerous academic articles and book chapters on the topic. Author of Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself and the new book Fierce Self-Compassion: How Women Can Harness Kindness to Speak Up, Claim Their Power and Thrive, she is also co-developed of the Mindful Self-Compassion training program. Listen in on their conversation about finding the balance between self-acceptance and the courage to make needed change and let Dr. Neff guide you through an exercise to hone your own fierce compassion skills.

Listen and learn:

  • What research reveals about women and self-compassion and what it can mean for your

  • Concrete benefits you can gain by being kinder and more forgiving to yourself

  • The relationship between gender socialization and the need for self-compassion

  • What “fierce” self-compassion might look or feel like

  • How fierce love may help drive social justice movements

  • The importance of balancing tenderness and fierceness—and why it’s so important in today’s world

  • Why practicing all aspects of self-compassion may be a revolutionary act—and how it can free you

  • The three components of self-compassion and how they manifest tenderness and fierceness in different situations

  • The difference between compassion and pity—and self-compassion and self-pity

  • Why self-compassion drives us to act on behalf of others

  • Why it’s OK to be a “compassionate mess”

  • How self-compassion skills can help reduce burnout—especially if you’re a caregiver

  • Guided training: How to use a self-compassion break for protection

  • Where to find free resources and learn more about fierce self-compassion


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